When she passed my macho husband was very sad, stayed by her side, and cried quite a bit. I dont even like dogs and that would bother me. It is annoying to the point of ruining my mood, even if it does only last a few minutes! I guess its my fault for pursuing her knowing she had a dog but you cant help who you fall in love with and shes a great person so I cant see myself leaving over a darn animal at times. My wife and daughter and son are in a combined hate campaign against me because i put them out in the garden and leave them if im left in the house with them, she feeds them on expensive dentistix, and the wont eatbarley anthing else now. The dog wont die if its not in the bed and eventually will GET IT that hes not to be in the bed in the first place. Pets are not disposable. Absolutely everywhere. Luckily, for the past months has hasnt mentioned too much about them and things are going better between us thankfully. I need only to say No and she stops. To say I fell in love with Oscar was an understatement, I was totally besotted by him, then 6 months later he was killed on the main road. She stained the carpets so bad that Im embarrassed to have company over. I am seriously thinking of telling him to get lost because I dont need the constant complaining, especially since he has no control over his dog but ignores how well my dog listens. My Australian shepherd is just a puppy and has done some destructive chewing, which he was properly punished for, but he didnt start this habit until I met my boyfriend. I have prayed He would take her. I soooo feel the heartache youre in. I let her out first thing in the morning but if I dont wake up early enough she just goes. He hates her he says, he says she is a stupid dog and cant wait until she dies. Get with the program, girl and do the right thing. I im not sure if its an indoor or outdoor dog. Its way better to put the dog on a leash and walk. Because there is a lot of food aggression, and he has to feed the dog repeatedly throughout the day (because he is NEVER eating enough) I suggested feeding the dog in the 2nd bedroom. Many times hes said if I reprimand the dog he will choke the life out of me. It wasnt until about a year into our relationship that I started disliking this dog. Like I was abusing the dog! I was very harsh dragging her by the leash when she wouldnt come and spanking her what she pottied in the house.the day I got her for shots she was so small and not very healthy that she got sick. My dog does listen, just not to him. Because he hates him please help. Now he says Pancho doesnt like being fed in the bedroom, he feels like he has done something wrong. WOW. Adopting a dog is expensive, and you live on a budget. If I argue with him that he needs to take care of these dogs he will just promise to help and will help out for one day then quit. to get off of the couch to go get a treat he had for her hed say She doesnt have to, shes the queen! He hurt me deeply and there were times I absolutely hated the animal because she was the agent of my pain. Although, after a few weeks, she started destroying our home. The dog is also due to get booster shots at the vet (by the way, the vet knows about the dogs situation and has recommended to my wife to have him put down)they were due over two months ago. I hate her. We would leave her home while we went to the store and after awhile she started to chew on things. His dog will jump up on the couch like me owns the place and will tey shove anyone off the couch. And now I have no idea what happened. Hes had this dog for six years prior to me, so shes been with him for a long time. I remember not too long after we had out child, one night she came back out 5 times in a 10-15 minute period to tell the dog good night and I love you. i know its what dogs do, but the other one doesnt sit and beg. This is the 5th time its happened and I dont want to live with this dog anymore. I work too many long hours and its not fair to the pets. and to imagine I used to love cats and dogs.. had many over the years but I really am done!!! He has never had a pet in his life and I am at the point where I would like to add a cat to the equation. I felt I needed to make a home for this cat. My husband loves our dogs as much as I do. Just like the other stories I have read, its like the dog runs the house. on all of that! When I dont stay over for a day or two and return I can see the dog has been sleeping on my side of the bed. My boyfriend and I recently moved in together and with that said, I acquired his seven year old Jack Russell female. It wasnt a matter of loving an animal, it was that he made me feel he was in love with the dog and it broke my heart over and over again. It can be annoying and it often stinks, but it is happy to be outside so not a big problem. Just to add to my previous problem, discussed issue again with spouse. End the relationship before opting for violence!!! My cat sheds a small bit with excessive petting, but it is beyond manageable with regular vacuuming. We recently found out I have antibodies in my blood that could be harmful to me and the baby, so I felt overwhelmed with stress. You just cannot argue with extreme pet lovers, it is like there is something wrong with us for not embracing and loving all of this. I found her a better home. Im Italian, I react! me too with my dog. I love animals but lets get real here! Who in the world prefers to sleep with animals over his wife??!! I was mortified. NPD is characterized by an individual having an inflated sense of self-importance, lack of empathy for others, and a deep need for excessive attention and/or admiration. :( any advice? So, since my Chihuahua was the only one fully house trained & shes such a good dog, we agreed that we would keep her, but the other 2 dogs would need to find new homes. No, you will not put my dog outside. I dont mind a quick sniff when someone walks in but she goes on non stop getting full hair on you. Why does the animal lover have to change and sacrafice when the animal hater would not dare do the same?? He takes his dog for rides, walks, hunting and to camp with him all the time while my dogs stays at home. This morning I got up and fed the crying baby, as I always do, while my husband sleeps. She constantly is dropping her slobbery toys in my lap. When we would eat dinner shed sit with her nose at your plate. Why is it that none of you get this until it is a human problem and then you still dont get that the dog isnt a human. I have asked numerous times for him to get his 9inch nails clipped but that also goes ignored. She wants to please and have my approval, and I researched ways to train, so I think most bad dogs have bad lazy owners. Find my story that I posted awhile back. I feel NO PEACE OR HARMONY WITH THAT LITTLE DEMON THING. It has caused me a lot of stress. Every suggestion I make about boundaries or training is shut down and she gets very offended. This is keeping me very busy the last days and I feel like one dog has to go if I want to keep my relationship. We cant leave Jake alone. I ended up ordering our food to go, but still. About a year ago, we got our home renovated and our bathroom upstairs was done beautifully, problem is, we cant really use it because that is his home. The emotional energy invested in loving ones pets robs emotional energy from a human partner Oh please give me strength. See none of these behaviors are normal. Would you be better to give him your ultimate sacrifice and find him a happy home to live the rest of his life? When I am at his house the dog cant let us cuddle in front of TV before interacting with aggressiveness act , he is either wants to sit in the same sofa and not a separate sofa. Ultimately, a dog that isnt bathed, played with, given affection, and taken out to exercise is neglected. So now I find that every time we watch a movie or do anything shes right there on the couch with him while Im the third wheel. The beauty of a human beings love toward another is when it is not for the gain of the one giving the love, when it is altruistic and they see all of the things that you inherently bring into the world. I think its the most disgusting thing ever, and they just let their cat scratch on furniture rip up boxes and shoes and let the cat walk around on the dinner table. Perhaps its time to move on in your life. Get a king size bed, and put an extra soft blanket at the base of it (below your feet). Or, as suggested, get a king sized bed that can accommodate you both and the fur baby. How many points will I take away? Recently, she has taken up chewing on the coffee table. Shes training them to bark because they bark and get their way!!! Jennifer- I wound up listening to your advice. In fact, there is nothing wrong with that if you meet all the needs and wants. We bought all new furniture for the new house bc we wanted to start everything fresh. The way she treats her dog is how she approaches life in general with no boundaries. Ultimately, it is extremely unfair to make a partner get rid of his/her pet. It shows she not only has any idea how pets work, but what is really helpful for someone who is depressed. Family dogs always seem more well adjusted and a lot less anxious or needy. I love BOTH of them and wish we could all PEACEFULLY and AMICABALLY cohabit. They have personalities. My husband has time to go bowling, golfing, drinking, sporting events, and then he wants another dog? That causes me much sorrow. I watch the dogs all day when my husband is at work. Hes told to stop, etc; which really does nothing anymore, cause hes use to being allowed to do what he wants. I love my husband, he is a fantastic man, in every way. The dogs sleeps in the bed and I cant stand it. I grew up with working ranch dogs. Your husband is fighting you on getting a dog because of a deeper issue. I feel bad for having these feeling and I feel awkward telling my friends about it because it seems so petty but its not. I adore my lady. I told her she could keep the dog if she promises to keep them separate at all times. Please fill out all required fields to submit your message. Sometimes the bond is instant and sometimes its not. Remember, the more that you can comfortably include your dog in your relationship, the happier you all will be. So while I totally agree with you and Bubbly, I feel like this is going to backfire on me. They stitched me up and called the police, which I guess is standard operating procedure in a dog attack, but I refused to give up the information. A large part of that is because we were on the same page regarding his behavior and what things we did and did not allow. I have a spouse who has gradually, over many years, eliminated any actual friends I might have that are not actually his own friends. The thing is, like someone has said here, people also lie about their feelings towards pets. You deserve to be listened to, talked to, and even disagreed with. 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